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      lilsbgirl
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      Posted by lilsbgirl

      on Jan 5, 2008

      I'm 28, and a single mom with a wonderful 3 yr old. I just found out I'm now pregnant, and to top it off was laid off in 2007, and have been working here and there. I'm desperately trying to get my son and I in our own place, as I currently live with his father. His father is an alcoholic, has drug problems and is just an overall verbally abusive and horrible guy.

      I've gone to all the resources and just patiently waiting for a call back on some housing, but I'm really starting to get nervous. I will basically be homeless by the end of the month, and I literally have a buck to my name. I signed up to go back to school to better my situation for my kids, (get a degree so I can make better money), but its tough. I just don't know what to do. Basically all I need right now is a place to live, as I cannot afford much. I also live in the worst town as its terribly expensive but there is no way i can move. The little support that my family gives me (they are in town too) is better than the zero I would have if I lived somewhere cheaper.

       

      Basically if anyone knows where I can find a place to live, cheap or where I could get assistance in paying rent would appreciate it!  

      UPDATE::

      Thanks to all who have offered support.. I finally found myself a place to stay, its not a permnant situation, but at least my children will have a safe place to stay, and I can focus on the future, and not be so stressed out. I am still trying to figure out the whole plan, working, school and how I am going to raise my children without shoving them into daycare all day long.

      If anyone is a single mom of 2 kids and has any advise on how to raise your kids (and not dump them off at a daycare all the time) and still be able to support them let me know!! I really believe the best care is that of mom, but I have to be realistic that I have to support myself and be able to care for my kids financially too. 

       

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        381. NylaMyQueen posted on Feb 19, 2012

        Hi I am a 20 year old sinlge mother with a 6 month old daughter. I have been trying to find employment since I had to stop working in October 2011. My child and I have been staying with my mother and since I have no income but she has been trying to kick me out since December. She has given me until April to move-out and I dont want to have to go to a shelter. If anyone knows where I can find quick employment or living expenses please let me know my email is luvinbrown@gmail.com

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        380. vivla posted on Feb 15, 2012
         in response to strongwomen...   Only suggestions is ask a co worker to stay with them till you get your taxes or just email me ill give you more suggestions
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        379. strongwomen posted on Feb 9, 2012
        Hi I am 22 years old with two children a three year old and 11month old life to me is so hecked a few months ago life was so great my boyfriend and I had our own apartment but last year he posts his job soour family had to split up so now I'm living ay my mom house with my children its been months and everyday my mom complains about us being here I do work but only four hours a day I had no babysitter until I begged my sister to watched them for me for 40 dollars a week but the problem is she stay far from where I live and work my car breaks down everyday my boyfriend let me borrow his car sometimes but his new job is very far so he need his car majority of the time I have no help or support from anyone else besize him and we both are young its only so much we can take I'm trying to be string for my children but I just wish my family was more help this morning my mom told me I have to find somewhere else to live if anyone has any advice I can really use it right now
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        378. quita1234 posted on Feb 8, 2012
        Hi i live in Maryland i have noone i have a 1 year old daughter which the father wasnt there threw anything my whole family turned on me im 18 years old i cant work because i have noone to watch my daughter because i have no family i live in Maryland i tried to get on section 8 but there not accepting applications anymore basically my mom said me or my daughter can not live there anymore she doesn't care if we live in my car. It would break my heart to have my daughter live in a homeless shelter i cant believe im doing this or that all my friends and family are doing this to me. Can anyone help or know where they help single moms on housing? Or cheap apartment in Maryland? Please let me know because i have a 1month time limit and then my mom says we have to go email me marquita020411@gmail.com
        zibbee
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        377. zibbee posted on Jan 29, 2012
         in response to Hopefulnewstart...   Have you looked into womens refuges these specialise in assisting women and their children who are escaping violence. I work in a refuge in Australia and we help and advise and offer crisis shelter. I know they have work in this area in the States so there must be some provision available but I am afraid I dont know the detail. Look up crisis line numbers and they should be able to point you in the right direction. We have helped many women turn their lives around.
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        376. hawk21 posted on Jan 27, 2012
         in response to bosslady19...   hi me and my wife can not have kids. we can help you out give you a some were to live and help you with your son you do not have to live in a car or sleep there no just email us and we will help you out preshawk@gmail.com
        linda641
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        375. linda641 posted on Jan 27, 2012
         in response to hopefulcina...   Hi, this is Linda. I wrote you last night. Its kinda weird I was looking at your profile and realized you are living in murfreesboro,tn. Funny thing so am I. my husband and I have lived here for 5 yrs now. please get ahold of me and we will try to help you. you can contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net
        Thanks Linda
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        374. linda641 posted on Jan 26, 2012

         in response to emely...   Hi, My name is Linda. where are you from? you are welcome to contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net

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        373. linda641 posted on Jan 26, 2012

         in response to hopefulcina...   Hi My name is Linda, I live in Tennessee. what are you looking for and what part of Tennessee? I will help you any way I can. I am sorry for all that you are going through. you are welcome to contact me at jamesapple@comcast.net
        thanks Linda

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        372. ddd123 posted on Jan 22, 2012
        Help!!!!!! Im 22 yrs old and just lost a child due to stillbirth because of a mental disorder called Edwards syndrome. my entire family turned their back on me. i have nowhere to go. i have a job offer in kennesaw ga. important hoping and praying that i get it. i just need to find a place to stay. i have car but i have no money but im hoping and praying they don't come get ny car because im currently sleeping out of it. can someone please help me and tell what to do from here...i sleep outside of hotels in parking lots and scraping change just to keep gas in.my car to keep the heat on while im asleep. i haven't eaten since i.left the hospital which was 3 days ago. im an emotional wreck and i feel as if i can't go nowhere from here. please someone tell me some answers or where i can go to.get an apt etc with no.income. thanks in advance.
        hopefulcina
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        371. hopefulcina posted on Jan 22, 2012
        Anybody know anything for TN? im 20 years old 7-9 weeks pregnant i find out friday for sure. i am currently living in a hotel with my boyfriend the babys father. he has a job at a factory but goes thru a temp so he only gets like 8 an hour. i have been looking for a job for over a month already i dont have any valid work history which i think is why i cant get hired. i dont know what to do im scared of losing the baby, i have lost one before. i dont have any food other then ramen at the moment. and i know i need better food then that for this child. if anyone knows of some place willing to hire a person like me please let me know.
        emely
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        370. emely posted on Jan 22, 2012
        I am 21 years old. I am pretty much alone. I am pregnant with my first. I am in college. I am lost of what to do. My bf/the dad of my baby cheated on me our entire relationship with an escort. He wants nothing to do with the baby,which is fine. I need help. I don't know what i am doing. I am really scared. I can't tell my family because they will never accept this. I don't have anyone support. If you guys know of places or people i could contact please let me know. I am studying Biology in my University. I need to get out of this town because is so little and has absolutely nothing. People just pretty much judges all the time. I would like to move to a bigger city. California, florida, i don't really care as long as I can provide for my kid. I know Spanish and English, i understand Italian and Portuguese. I also played college tennis, and i have thought tennis in well knows athletic clubs, i just don't have my teaching license. I have nannied since i was 9 years old up to now. I just need to get away from everyone that does not want me to have my baby. If any of you have any advice please let me know. Thank you!
        theonesinneed
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        369. theonesinneed posted on Jan 21, 2012
        I am also a single mother of three ages 3,4 and 10. I am 30 years old currently not working. Desperatly in need of a job to support my kids. I currently am staying with my parents but constantly argueing with them. Sometimes fighting. They say they want me out but there is nowhere for me to go. Their dad is not around and could care less unfortunately. If anyone knows of any kind of assistance other than section 8 please, I would greatly appreciate it. I can't live like this anymore and its not healthy for my kids to hear it or see it. Please help me.
        Big. Wheel
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        368. Big. Wheel posted on Jan 21, 2012
         in response to Gogglesglare...   Contact me I am willing to help!!srw517@hotmail.com thanks.
        Hopefulnewstart
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        367. Hopefulnewstart posted on Jan 18, 2012
        I am a woman with three children and college grad and no job . Im from Rochester, NY and in a very abusive relationship...... need a way out. I have family in other states like GA. NC. and Fla. but dont know how to start to leave this place. do anyone know help numbers in any of the states i have listed?
        abm79
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        366. abm79 posted on Jan 18, 2012
         in response to moser298...   I don't know anything about Michigan. I rather if I'm gonna relocate then I'd prefer to do it somewhere warmer.
        moser298
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        365. moser298 posted on Jan 18, 2012
         in response to abm79...   Would u be interested in relocating to mi
        PJsMom
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        364. PJsMom posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to Gogglesglare...   Ummm, I am not sure where you are or what advice has been given to you. I know here where I am (In Mississippi) if you go file for food stamps, they ask for the fathers name and if you are recieving child support. If not, they take it from there. Ask around for what is out there Government wise for help. I KNOW how hard it is to go from living well, to living poor and having to seek help. The very first time I sat waiting my turn at a food pantry I cried like a baby. Just having to be there humiliated me, but I have learned that for those of us who REALLY want to get out of this hole and get back to where we were or even better then we must take what ever steps we have to. I have found (here anyway) that different cities around the area offer different help. The food pantry here is by the Methodist church and they give out monthly boxes full of stuff you actually will use even with MEAT! I also found that the government housing in some of the cities is NOT where I would want to place my child in, BUT, here in the city I moved to it is actually very nice and the waiting list only took three months to get us in. I also, through talking to a friend I have made here found out about all the little discounts I can get off of my internet.
        We all have our moments of feeling as if our life will never get better and as you said F us all, but after the melt down is over, remember as long as you are trying as hard as you can and looking for help in all places you can that you are doing your best and you WILL provail!!
        moser298
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        363. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to cutypie2006...   What state r u in email me moser298@yahoo.com
        moser298
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        362. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to needhelp91...   Want to move to Michigan I can help u
        moser298
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        361. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to jozma...   Email me at moser298@yahoo.com I can help u
        moser298
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        360. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
        Sry forgot to say I live in Michigan but would b willing to move u depending on where u r at
        abm79
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        359. abm79 posted on Jan 16, 2012
        Is there anyone in CT?
        abm79
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        358. abm79 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to moser298...   I'm in Ct
        moser298
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        357. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
        Email me at moser298@yahoo.com anyone that needs a real man and or dad that works for a liveing and that realy cares lots of love to give thanks
        moser298
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        356. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to randybell...   Where ru at
        moser298
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        355. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to abm79...   What state ru in maybe I can offer u a place
        moser298
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        354. moser298 posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to jovani...   I would love to help u out I am looking for a family I live in Michigan
        Anonymous
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        353. Anonymous posted on Jan 16, 2012
        ONTARIO CANADA trying to get a place in NEW BRUNSWICK
        CLOSE TO MAINE

        and a OPEN BORDER FOR THE MOST PART AT NIGHT
        Anonymous
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        352. Anonymous posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to singledad1234...   integrity I MISSED A LETTER IN MY EMAIL
        Anonymous
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        351. Anonymous posted on Jan 16, 2012
         in response to Gogglesglare...   i raised four alone and i am a man
        I wanted one woman not six I wanted a wife with one friend for life
        instead i got to be single at 28 and now i am fourtyfive
        i lost two daughters to a cult and dont see them at all
        my oldest is 24 and my son is 16
        we are in canada so if you are YOUR welcome to come

        we are willing to help and share what we have
        integity@cyg.net if you just need to talk
        or you can even call me to yell and swear and get mad
        at the world I KNOW IT HURTS SO BAD
        and YOUR RIGHT they dont give a shit
        ITS ALL BEEN PLANNED

        www.infowars.com
        www.henrymakow.com
        www.jesus-is-savior.com THE CHURCHES ARE NOTHING BUT PAID LIARS
        Gogglesglare
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        350. Gogglesglare posted on Jan 16, 2012
        Everyone agrees and applauds, but where's the help? There's still not enough programs. Get this. I'm 27 year old mom of 4 year old. My car just broke down and lost my job because of lack of transpertation. I try to make his deadbeat abusive father responsible and pay for anything. All that I'm left with is his child, my life threatened and him on probation from the domestic charges. I did what I was suppose to. Got him out! Now what???? It cost $450 just to file forms to start child support. I was abonded by everyone. Now what? Give my son away, and die homeless? What do I do??? I have no one. I came from a good home, I was raised republican, Christian with hi standards and ethics. I am now the person I was taught not to be. Not by my choices, but by the choices of people close to me that affected me completely. My life will never be. I'm only 27 and I'm starving, my baby isn't, I've lost 93 lbs, I can't buy clothes, but my baby is dressed, I can not afford cable, but my baby has his favorite movies. Why do I find the strength? When his father is let so loosely off the hook. I can't believe they charge money to file for child support. Don't you think I would have never applied if money was not an issue???? Just venting, this won't help either. Fuck you and fuck me, we're all so truly loved aren't we???
        corbster
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        349. corbster posted on Jan 14, 2012
         in response to Kirbybuffy...   Oh man! Glad to know we are not alone. Its trully sad and scary out there. Hubby been out of normal field od work for 3 years and its been a struggle ever since and seems to get worse! Been looking for work just taking in any job, we have exhausted our life savings jusst to survive, and it breaks my heart! I honeslty don't know what to do anymore. Just got laid off once again, and denied unemployment (long story) I lay awake worrying so much! We know how to survive off very little, but surviving off nothing is not possible! We have a 10 yo and infant girl! What makes it harder is knowing just me and hubby could live in our car, but not the kids, its got to the point where we wonder if the kids would be better staying somewhere else while we stay in the car!? I just don't dont know anymore, I am so sad! You just feel numb after a while! It also kills me because its not bad choices at all, its hard luck. P--prayers!
        Anonymous
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        348. Anonymous posted on Jan 13, 2012
         in response to bookworm2011...   well i only have two childen now
        i lost two girls
        and we are trying to have a farm in canada grow food
        help others a DEPRESSION IS COMING and millions will be rounded up
        and starved or executed

        its not going to be fun in the usa I am glad this farm is in canada

        but its close to the maine new brunswick border
        so usa people can share this farm too
        db66
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        347. db66 posted on Jan 13, 2012
         in response to jovani...   where are you from? what state?
        bookworm2011
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        346. bookworm2011 posted on Jan 12, 2012
         in response to singledad1234...   I applaud you for being strong and raising your children alone..not many men today have that mindset, and sadly not alot of women either. I have to agree with you wholeheartedly that us women have to use common sense when dealing with men. We are the ones that can get pregnate, left with children to raise alone, and need to be really picky about who we procreate with. Even with a child, you can find a man to love you but wait for the right one and stop bringing more fatherless children into an already bad situation. It's like digging a ditch that gets deeper and deeper and your asking for help to get out but theres really no answer except to change what your doing, its not working so do something different. I learned this the hard way, thinking my ex husband would help raise our kids, he didn't..when I figured out that I was in this alone, I stopped dating losers..if he wouldn't help with his own kids, what could I possibly expect other men to do for my kids? I set the bar high, waited, made changes in myself and actually LOVED being alone..once I was self-sufficent, I looked for a man who loved God above all else, and wanted a family not just a wife. My now-husband raised my two older kids, set a wonderful example of a TRUE father and provider, and we now have two more children..but I waited until I knew he was in it for the long haul or I would have been raising kids again on my own. I pray that the women suffering and more so, the children, open their eyes, know they can do it alone until Mr. RIGHT comes , work on you, focus on your children and build yourself a support system. God doesn't want you to fail, he has more blessings for you than you can handle, but you have to turn to him and be willing to go it alone if you have to until that special someone comes alone..my heart goes out to you all, but be aware and don't let boyfriends trick you into having kids with no commitment..the thing that saved me and allowed me to get back on track after years of struggling financially was being married, the court recognizes you as a wife but not as a girlfriend. If I hadn't been married for over 8 years to my ex, He wouldn't ever had to split his 401k or investments with me. That gave me and my kids security that we needed after we no longer had his income..so think about your kids and put them first, they didn't ask to be here and deserve everything life has to offer. They should have two parents, but if they only have one and it's you, do all you can to make every moment with them be the best moment possible..Blessings to you all
        jovani
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        345. jovani posted on Jan 12, 2012
        me an my babyboy have no money or a place to live can many one help me out
        maryc88
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        344. maryc88 posted on Jan 12, 2012
         in response to OliviaDianne...   I'm 23.The same exact thing happend to me I wwas with my babys father for four years and then he wanted to have a family so I agreed he chickened out and left me while I was 6 months pregnant for a 18yr old girl then he came back two months later trying to pretend like it never happend. Ughh this is a horrible situation as it causes painful feelings. The advise I give to you is time goes on life goes on, find a therapist I did . Have them lay out some options with you and see what you guys come up with. Stay strong !! U are a independent woman who can make it! You don't need him!! Be brave. May god be with you and help you find a clear path.
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        343. Eutawangel posted on Jan 10, 2012
         in response to Kirbybuffy...   May God bless...you & your family are in my prayers...thanks for the encouraging sharing!
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        342. shanell2 posted on Jan 10, 2012
        all i can say is help i have three kids i need to move beie for he got out r i can b
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        341. Kirbybuffy posted on Jan 9, 2012
         in response to montedreams...   Amen!!! I agree. I just came across this site today, after looking for resources for the homeless, low-income housing, etc. At first I was so thankful, feeling God had answered a prayer. Then as I'm reading, I noticed that some people leaving comments are really mean & hateful. How dare they be so un-caring to someone that is already feeling down & totally hopeless. What's the point? That doesn't help them. I'm sure they have already had a huge dose of tough love. They are here in search of HELP....not a chewing out by some smart mouth that doesn't care about what they are going through. If u can't say something nice, don't say anything. I don't understand people who enjoy being disrespectful to someone that has done nothing to deserve it. My heart just sings when I get the chance to help someone in need. I mean, what else could be more rewarding. I don't have much to work with myself right now, but there are lots of ways to be a blessing to someone other than with money. I was shocked to see so many people are in the same situation as I am, if not worse. I'm not as young as most of the ones I've read about here, but I do have a child that is 11 yrs. old. My husband lost his job in Sept. We don't have any transportation, & we live in a very small town that has next to no job opportunities. Similar story.....we got behind on our rent & have now been evicted. We don't have anyone that can help us. Our church has helped us out alot already. And we don't have a clue where we are going to go. We live in Texas. I have been looking online for some kind of resources for housing, but haven't found anything. What bothers me about it is my son having to suffer. My husband & I could just tough it out, pitch a tent somewhere, sleep in our car(if we had one). We would just have to make due, but I can't put my son in that position. My 22 yr. old son lives 300 miles away & is going to TRY to bring me an older truck he's not using, but I don't even have any gas money to help him with. And unless I can find him a ride back, he won't even be able to bring it. I didn't mean to post this much info. but this is the only site I've found where you can tell your story. And it may possibly reach someone that might could help or have info that would be helpful. Well thank you, & my prayers are with you all.
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        340. ekikaseven posted on Jan 9, 2012
         in response to krox13...   Have the father of your kid(s) to man up & provide a place for your kids. Do this by making sure they pay child support or go to jail.
        krox13
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        339. krox13 posted on Jan 8, 2012
        Hi im currently staying at a freiends house but i need a house asap i am 18 and have a 2 and a half year old and am 18weeks pregnant and am in desperate need of a house for me and my kids can anyone give me any advice or anyone to call it would be much appreciated
        abm79
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        338. abm79 posted on Jan 8, 2012
        Hi I'm new to this site but I'm desperate for help. I'm 32 with a beautiful 19mo baby and were in need of a place to live. I'm currently staying with family and its not a good situation. I'm on waiting list at shelters but nothing. The town I'm near and in there's very little help. I'm looking for work to get on my feet but its been hard. Like I said I'm staying with family and its an extremely stressful difficult situation. In addition to there being no room for
        us at all. If someone can help or knows of anything. I've also tried low income housing but the wait list for that is at least 2yrs.
        UNSURE TOTALLY LOST
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        337. UNSURE TOTALLY LOST posted on Jan 8, 2012
        unsure of anything to do i have 3 kids an i am in ky but things at my house r so bad right now i want to pack us up an just move away cause i feel as if i cant take anymore but i no god gives us no more than we can handle but LORD i jus dont no how much more i can do i need to start a totally who new life with jus me an the kids im so unsure of anything right now would love some advice any please an jus say a prayer for me an us
        Apfu
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        336. Apfu posted on Jan 6, 2012
         in response to brooklynn...   I don't know how far along you- nor your age. But we have a maternity home in SC. Give life to your baby. It is fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalms 139. Visit www.aplaceforus.com
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        335. bosslady19 posted on Jan 6, 2012
         in response to GodsBlessings2b...   well will u help me i stay in statesville n the waitin list is 2 years n im 19 n been kicked out my house havea 2 year old son nd a baby on the way need help now!!!!!!!!!!!!
        cheeckygal
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        334. cheeckygal posted on Jan 6, 2012
        i am living at home with my mum but have just recently found out that im pregnant, im unemployed and dont have a clue on what to do im only 19 can somebody help me??, i need to get my own home asap!!
        bosslady19
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        333. bosslady19 posted on Jan 6, 2012
        hey im 19 and i have a 2 year old son nd still stayin with my step grandma who doesn wnt me with her at all im n a bad sistuation im pregnant again nd i need to move out asap ive tried to going to the housein place n statesville but the wait to tht is 2 years me nd my son r from place to place ive slept n a car many of nights because she wouldn let me n will someone please help me 2012
        Anonymous
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        332. Anonymous posted on Jan 4, 2012
         in response to OliviaDianne...   are YOU Kidding Me? I am a fourty five year old man
        i raised four children alone for 16 years
        I lost two daughters already and live with my oldest and my youngest

        he went out and YOU say YOU want him to have a DAD?
        are you out of your mind HE SHOWED YOU he is NOT A DAd NOT A HUSBAND

        i have been single since i was 28 and i am now fourty five
        but all i can say to woman like you USE COMMON SENSE
        MEN LIKE him wanted to get laid
        they never gave a dam about you or the consequences
        JESUS is god TRUST HIM go to a decent church
        find a man that will love you someday OR stay single
        but for gods sake GET RID OF that party with my friends LOSER
        OliviaDianne
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        331. OliviaDianne posted on Jan 4, 2012
        I am 22 years old and 34 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend and I had a great relationship. But, it seems that the closer our due date came the more distanced he became from the baby and therefore me.. New Year's eve was the final straw, I went to the hospital after having severe contractions for hours and hours and he went out with his friends. I was angry that his priorities were completely out of wack and he was angry that I was. He broke up with me and told me to move out of his house. I am very sad about the situation and I want to go back, I want my baby to have a family. I want to raise my son in the room that I have been preparing for him for months. But I can help think the stress that my (now) ex is causing me cant be good for the baby and of course, he is the boy I care about the most.

        Does anyone have any advice, comments, positive, or inspirational things. I feel so lost.
        brooklynn
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        330. brooklynn posted on Dec 30, 2011
         in response to threejoneses...   Does anyone know where to find help i portland oregon? i just found out i'm pregnant and my parents are kicking me out if i don't abort it, but my boyfriend and i want ti get married and keep it, we just don;t have enough money to get our own place
        polymanforyou
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        329. polymanforyou posted on Dec 28, 2011
         in response to NeedsHelpFast...   just found out about your siduation Im 50 Im a kind oldman who has a heart and hates to see kids treated unfairly would you be willing to help me on my farm, Ill look after you and help you get back on your feet who knows you might like what I do I feed the poor in LA and grow the food myself I could use another adult to talk with pretty quiet here you might get bored do have internet and phone plus im close to town you can reach me at polymanforyou@aol.com In the meantime may God keep his hand on you. and keep you safe
        polymanforyou
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        328. polymanforyou posted on Dec 28, 2011
         in response to mommy of 2...   I know what you mean I want kids all of mine have left the nest and now im missing not having things to do
        they kept me busy and active. thought about adopting but not sure about doing it alone
        would be willing to adopt the mom with kids
        bored and lonely
        tippygirl
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        327. tippygirl posted on Dec 28, 2011
        I understand your situation. I'm glad u found somewhere. I am in a very similar situation. Except its me my two boys and my fiance. We stay at his parents but there is drug use and abusive people here that I do not want my babies around but we have no choice cause we have Jo where else to go. And not to mention we are four of seventeen people in this house, if anyone has any advice or Nos where we could find low income housing please let me know. My name is Tiffany and my email is tiff_amc@yahoo.com thanks a lot
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        326. beccaboo21 posted on Dec 21, 2011
         in response to Mely234...   im in oklahoma but willing to relocate in 17 almost 18 and im really good with kids i am currently living on my own and really interested in this job you can email me if u want @ godshomegirl13@yahoo.com
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        325. Mely234 posted on Dec 19, 2011
         in response to N92...   I am looking for a live in nanny, but I'm in texas
        A Mother My Self
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        324. A Mother My Self posted on Dec 19, 2011
        Yes,go to knowthebible.com. We have many moms who would love to talk with you. God Bless.
        A Mother My Self
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        323. A Mother My Self posted on Dec 19, 2011
        Yes,go to knowthebible.com. We have many moms who would love to talk with you. God Bless.
        mommy of 2
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        322. mommy of 2 posted on Dec 17, 2011
        Wow 52 yr old eww lol I'm a mother of 2 awell I applied for housing I've been waiting for 2 yrs smh ... I live with my moter who is always kicking me out which I hate cuz da kids c it all der father I a junky I knew him since I was 11 now I'm 22 I thought I knew him good enough I was shocked on how he turned out. Soo girl is hard but sometimes u have 2 put up with things for the best I'm a full time student. Now but struggle rasing my kids
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        321. redolive posted on Dec 17, 2011
         in response to kelcon...   stop being a pervert u stupid old man get a wife ur own age or just get off this page how desperate can u be?
        N92
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        320. N92 posted on Dec 17, 2011
        I am a 19 year old single mommy, survivor of domestic abuse, and about to be homeless... ive tried calling around but being as its the weekend I have not had any luck, does anyone have any suggestions of where we can go?
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        319. kelcon posted on Dec 14, 2011
         in response to NeedsHelpFast...   hello tell me would u be interested inmoving in with a 52 year old gentleman
        NeedsHelpFast
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        318. NeedsHelpFast posted on Dec 14, 2011
        I am a 20 year old female, I have a 2 year old and I am 6 weeks pregnant. The father of both kids just went to jail and my parents just kicked me out. I have no way of getting any where, and I have no home or job. I am in severe need of help. I've tried to go to homeless shelters but they keep telling me they're full. If anyone knows anything about where I can get help PLEASE tell me. I am on the last limb here and I don't know what to do. Please help me. I'm begging you.
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        317. no_where_to_go posted on Dec 10, 2011
        me and the father of my child are in a situation. im almost three months and his sister just kicked us out with know where to go in the town we live in. we live in plattsmouth nebraska and were trying to get to seattle washington where his mother lives and where we both have jobs waiting for us but right now we have no income and no where to go. we need HELP asap what do we do
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        316. Brianna M posted on Dec 5, 2011
         in response to mama4life...   Just a question but how Is anything that ms bookworm insulting or wrong? I think she's ABSOLUTELY correct this forum is to help mother and child...your being a pretty night hypocrite!
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        315. mama4life posted on Dec 5, 2011
         in response to mama4life...   Excuse me...... I meant insulting comment miss bookworm :-)
        mama4life
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        314. mama4life posted on Dec 5, 2011
         in response to bookworm2011...   I have not made an inspiring comment miss bookworm :-) for I don't judge :-) I try to those who need it and started that that's what this site is for :-) to help one another find their way :-) and yes you are correct I have committed sins that I have asked my heavenly father to forgive me for :-) thank you for showing that you care :-) God bless you
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        313. bookworm2011 posted on Dec 4, 2011
         in response to mama4life...   I think that before you make another insulting comment to a person, you should stop posting "in the Lord JEsus name"..you do not represent God when you judge or criticize others...you dont know who is being blindsided by the devil..perhaps you are? Everyone here is entited to his or her own opinion whether you agree with it or not...Your no better than anyone else because you spout about Jesus in every post..live it and you wouldnt have to always talk it..as you did say WE ARE ALL SINNERS AND THAT INCLUDES YOU MY FRIEND
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        312. mama4life posted on Dec 4, 2011
         in response to ekikaseven...   Wow!!! This is a site for people to look for help our give advice, not to discriminate against those who at trying!! I feel for you. Yes Jesus paid for our sind in hopes we would learn from it. Obviously you have not.

        Lord please forgive this lady for she does not see she is being blinded by the devil. Please my heavenly father help her see where we are supposed to stand in your world and not to judge for we all have sinned dear Lord in Jesus name amen
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        311. mama4life posted on Dec 4, 2011
         in response to hawk21...   Not to be rude but out of curiosity how is that helping her? You're willing to take a baby away from its mother and that's wrong. Just cause she us currently homeless doesn't mean she would be a bad mother. Randyberyl don't give up! Pray God will help you through these tough times. My prayers are with you and I know its possible, I am living proof the Lord has been by my side since I had my first child at 17 and I have never regretted a day. Stay strong. If you need to talk I am open to talk :-)
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        310. hawk21 posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to randybell...   Hi me and my wife can not have a baby and are kooking to take one in to a very loving home we have a room all set up But no baby for it I no you are homrless and have not home for your baby to be we can give your baby a life and a loving home and a safe place to live we are looking for someone who like to give me and my wife a dream come true for us all so we can help you to just email.us asap at preshawk@gmail.com jessie n barbara we can help you out
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        309. ekikaseven posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to RUSHKA35...   I appreciate prayers.
        I am full of 'practicality & common sense' more than anything else.

        Anyway,thank for the prayers
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        308. kelcon posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to needhelp91...   hello: would u consider relocating to maine?
        hogtls1998@aol.com
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        307. kelcon posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to LittleWeirdChick...   hello: tell me would you be interested in living in a log cabin in the state of maine with a 52 year old gentleman that would take care of you as if you were my wife
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        306. kelcon posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to randybell...   tell me would you be interested in a 52 year old gentleman that would take you into my home and provide you with all you need. be a father to your child and take care of your child
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        305. kelcon posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to teenmom08...   hello: tell me would you be interested in living with a 52 year old man that loves children and live in the country
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        304. mom_in_distress posted on Dec 2, 2011
        Hi I posted earlierr asking for help, if there is anyone at all that can help me thru the holidays it would be much appreciate, I am new to this site and hve never asked for help like this before. I am trying to get an early start because I iknow that it is a long process. Please, Please if there is anyone that can help with us for anything please get in contact with me on here. Below is a copy of my original ppost. Thanks.

        I am 23 I have a wonderful 2 year old, I am engaged and we are struggling this time of year we moved into our first house and everything that could have gone wrong did. We are hard working people he works 2 jobs and I work and go to school full-time. and now unfortunately everything were making is going to fix the house to make it safe to live in and to pay the rent and bills. My fiancee doesnt know I am doing this but I want my daughter to have a great holiday she really hasnt had a good christmas yet and this year she is almost 3 and is finally telling me certain toys that she wants and it breaks my heart to kknow that I probably wont be able to get it for her. I would never ask for assistance unless it was the only choice I had, I cant bear to wake up christmas morning to and empty tree, it makes me cry everytime I think about it, I do for others at everychance I get, I have helped many single mothers with their bills, clothing and food, and I am hoping that now that I am the one in need someone out there will feel my pain. I live in Portland, OR. Im not asking for money in anyway, just gifts foor a 2 year old little girl. Thank-You and Hapy Holiday and best of luck to everyone on here!!!
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        303. randybell posted on Dec 2, 2011
        I am a 22 year old female and im 8 months pregnant for the first time. My name is Miranda and i am currently homeless and have been since i was 17. Ive tried everything to find a safe place to live for me and my unborn son. Me and the father have been together since we were 14 and two days after i found out i was pregnant he left me and i havnt talked to him since. I have no income or family to help me. I really need a home for me and my son where i dont have to worry about being unsafe or having to sleep with some man to have a roof over my head. Ive tried several housing assistance programs but it all seems to dead end. Im really scared and i need a fresh start. Please help me
        RUSHKA35
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        302. RUSHKA35 posted on Dec 2, 2011
         in response to ekikaseven...   god help u lady ...ur full of hate i will pray for u....
        schofieldco
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        301. schofieldco posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to LittleWeirdChick...   I can help, email me: schofieldco@yahoo.com
        schofieldco
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        300. schofieldco posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to LittleWeirdChick...   If you are willing to relocate I have a place for you. I am looking to adopt but can not because I am a single male. Email me schofieldco@yahoo.com and I will give you my number
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        299. mom_in_distress posted on Dec 1, 2011
        I am 23 I have a wonderful 2 year old, I am engaged and we are struggling this time of year we moved into our first house and everything that could have gone wrong did. We are hard working people he works 2 jobs and I work and go to school full-time. and now unfortunately everything were making is going to fix the house to make it safe to live in and to pay the rent and bills. My fiancee doesnt know I am doing this but I want my daughter to have a great holiday she really hasnt had a good christmas yet and this year she is almost 3 and is finally telling me certain toys that she wants and it breaks my heart to kknow that I probably wont be able to get it for her. I would never ask for assistance unless it was the only choice I had, I cant bear to wake up christmas morning to and empty tree, it makes me cry everytime I think about it, I do for others at everychance I get, I have helped many single mothers with their bills, clothing and food, and I am hoping that now that I am the one in need someone out there will feel my pain. I live in Portland, OR. Im not asking for money in anyway, just gifts foor a 2 year old little girl. Thank-You and Hapy Holiday and best of luck to everyone on here!!!
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        298. hawk21 posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to kg101...   hi me and my wife can not have kids and we love to take your in and give them a grate home and a lot of love we have a babys room all set up and no baby so if this is something that will work for you you can email us at preshawk@gmail.com them we can get with you and work it out
        hawk21
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        297. hawk21 posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to jozma...   hi my wife and i can not have kids and if you need a good home for them we love to take them in we have a babys you all set up and no baby if this some thing that will help you out they will have a loving home and you can come see them if you like we can give them a good life and a good xmass this year you can email us at preshawk@gmail.com
        mama89
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        296. mama89 posted on Dec 1, 2011
        im a 22 year old single mother of a 14 month old baby girl...im getting kicked out of my uncles house cus he is haven his friends move in...i need to fine something very cheap very fast...i live in jersey city...if anyone can help me i would rele appreciate it...
        mama4life
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        295. mama4life posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to Angel2015...   Where@in WA? I may be able to help
        mama4life
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        294. mama4life posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to cutypie2006...   where do you live?i can try to help you figure something out. Stay safe God Bless you and your children
        mama4life
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        293. mama4life posted on Dec 1, 2011
         in response to kg101...   Where do you live?
        kg101
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        292. kg101 posted on Nov 30, 2011
        I'm a single 22 year old mother nd I have two kids. I'm currently getting kicked out of my house and I'm pregnant I really want to find a safe place for my kids and I if any one knows of any government progrnas that can help please reply
        Brianna M
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        291. Brianna M posted on Nov 30, 2011
         in response to jozma...   Hey I live in Ohio...if you need a place to live i have a extra room full of baby supplies if you want to i can come get you and you can stay with me....:)
        Eutawangel
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        290. Eutawangel posted on Nov 29, 2011
         in response to needhelp91...   Have you tried calling Public Housing, Section 8, Medical Assistance & Dept of Social Services....best advice: know that God loves you...began seeking God thru Lord Jesus by repenting & believing the gospel. Had prayed for you & many in past & May God bless, guide, open doors & keep. p.s. I'm no where near Chicago so the names I gave of local helps might be different.
        Carolina82
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        289. Carolina82 posted on Nov 29, 2011
         in response to missy2112...   i emailed you
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        288. missy2112 posted on Nov 29, 2011
         in response to Carolina82...   im willing to help u email me amyfoxy2005@yahoo.com
        jozma
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        287. jozma posted on Nov 29, 2011
        I need a place out of Michigan. I am a single mother i am 23 my daughter is 5. My family is torturing me, and driving me to feel like the only peace i will have is to end it all.
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        286. Brianna M posted on Nov 28, 2011
         in response to upsidedownworld...   i live in Ohio i have a room that you can have, is there another way i can get ahold of you?
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        285. upsidedownworld posted on Nov 28, 2011
        hey Iam a single mom in Alpharetta,GA 3 months preganet 21 years old with no place to go can any one help me.I have a job i'm a server in dont make much to keep buying motels.
        needhelp91
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        284. needhelp91 posted on Nov 26, 2011
        Where do I go in chicago tp get some sort of housing? 20 and pregnant, no transportation, unemployed for now.
        Anonymous
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        283. Anonymous posted on Nov 25, 2011
         in response to singledad1234...   I have a place you all can stay.I have a extra bedroom just want to help a family.Yes I do require some kind of help with utilities,& rent.The amount you said you can pay is fine,but I need to know more about you.ok
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        282. cutypie2006 posted on Nov 23, 2011
        Advice?.... My boyfriend and I are on the rocks and I called the cops he was yelling at me and telling my children horrible things about me that kids shouldn't hear. He went to jail that night and I had left and stayed elsewhere for the night. I figured he wouldn't be out of jail until at least the next day, but he got out that night at like 2:30 in the am. Now he's at our house and I need stuff for my kids. Not only that but I don't have anywhere else to go. During our relationship he had told me it was okay to quite my job, it was fast food and I hated it, so I did. Anyway I know the landlord will probably rather have him stay cause he has a job still and makes really good money. So now I feel like I have to move out. I'm scared to go home for my things I'm jobless and about to be homeless. I need somewhere to go. I am 25 and I have 2 children, boys 8 and 5. Can anyone tell me if there is a place to help people like me, that doesn't take a year waiting list. I really need some help. I don't know what to do?!......
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